QUESTION–1

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN A MAN HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE?

A man who have sex with a woman before marrying her, loses a certain amount of respect for her. It’s not intentional; he doesn’t even know it’s going to happen. But he can’t control it. His desire to marry is drastically diminished; A lack of trust penetrates his thoughts; Insecurities begin emerging throughout the relationship in all different forms. But the worse consequences to having sex before marriage, is what happens after you get married. Therefore, if all possible, wait. Or, if you have already had sex, and you really love each other; abstain from sexual activities for at least 30-60 days before getting married. This abstinence experience will remove the sinful taste of sex from the man’s taste buds, and bless him with an enjoyable respectable lawfully exciting sexual taste after marriage.

QUESTION –2

WHAT HAPPENS AFTER YOU GET MARRIED FROM HAVING SEX?

When a man have sex with his wife after experiencing sex with her before marriage, he experience, for the first time, that the sex doesn’t taste the same. No one explained how legal sex, taste different than unmarried sex. And although he has the same woman in the same bed, the atmosphere changed when the sex became legal. The thrill of non-committed sex disappears when the man becomes committed. He search for the previous thrill and can’t find it. So he either adds pornography to the marriage, or he cheats on his wife. These actions don’t mean that he doesn’t love his wife, he’s simply trying to satisfy a craving that was being fulfilled before he got married. A craving which was being fulfilled by the same woman who can no longer supply it after becoming his wife. But with God, all things are possible.

QUESTION –3

WHY DO SOME HUSBANDS INTRODUCE PORN INTO THE MARRIAGE?

When a man brings in porn as an exciting addition to the marriage romance, it is probably because he is craving a pre-marital sexual thrill. And as a Christian, he might try to justify the porn as an innocent way of discovering new techniques and positions that will benefit the sexual romance of the marriage. This seems to benefit him well; allowing him the satisfaction of a pre-marital sexual thrill without actually cheating on his wife to get it. Of course, in his eyes, Matthew 5:28 wouldn’t be applicable in this particular situation. The wife might be willing to go along with it in order to please her husband. But understanding the root cause for bringing porn into the marriage might help encourage better creative ways for developing an alternative solution. There’re much more beneficial ways of enhancing the marriage experience than to add porn.

QUESTION –4

DOES PORNOGRAPHY ENHANCE THE MARRIAGE EXPERIENCE?

Certain pastors have agreed to approve pornography, for marriages only, so long as both the husband and the wife agree. But, the pastors do not take into consideration, that while preaching against adultery on the pulpit, they, contrariwise, encourage their married couples to use adulterous entertainment to presumably enhance their sanctified marriage.

The fact is, Pornography decreases the man’s ability to perform at his peak level, forcing him to ejaculate way too early; and denying his wife the wonderful pleasure of successfully completing her orgasm. Pornography is, actually, a false stimulant, hijacking the man’s imagination; leading his mind away from his wife and dragging it across the sexual activities of other people.

Pornography forces the man to center his attention on his own pleasures rather than the pleasures of his wife; supplying him with a false sense of accomplishment; as if he gave his wife the greatest time of her life, while the wife soon lose interest with having sex, and the husband tries to figure out, why.

QUESTION –5

WHAT DOES A SEXUALLY FULFILLED MARRIED LIFE LOOKS LIKE?

1-The husband & wife focuses their energy to the exploration of untapped sexual triggers which lie across the body of their own spouse.

2-The husband & wife learns and address the sexual triggers of their spouse and use various combinations of those triggers for each other’s pleasures.

3-The husband & wife connects emotionally & physically; rendering their imagination to the acceptance of each other.

4-The husband & wife hold each other as the most important person in their life besides God.

5-The wife & husband accepts each other’s past failures and move together towards the experience of a wonderfully new beginning of life.

FOR BEST RESULTS, KEEP GOD FIRST

God is the one who created sex. He knows what it takes for married couples to experience the greatest pleasures from it. Give God thanks while making love to your spouse. Silently, of course. And you’ll be amazed of how sexually enhanced the experience will be.

Pornography doesn’t come even close to providing the magnificent sexual pleasures that accompanies married couples who put God first. It is the Lord, who has placed enough wonderful adventure in a wife to delight the curiosities of man for a life time. Enjoy!