CHAPTER 1

CORE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ALPHA-MALES & BETA-MALES

Alpha-Males are driven by goals and achievements. Beta-Males are driven by recognition and acceptance. An Alpha-male can live without recognition and acceptance so long as he attain his goals and achievements.  A Beta-male can live without goals and achievements so long as he receives recognition and acceptance. Those who fully examine how true this is, will acquire the power to control the temperature of any relationship.

It’s the mindset of an Alpha-male that defines him, not his physical appearance. A coward can display good looks and muscular physique, but carries no heart to back it up; while another may yield unattractive physical features, but will exemplify fearlessness and superb leadership qualities in the face of oppositions.

Society has advertised Alpha-males as strong, good-lookin, muscularly fit, and confident individuals which dazzle the ladies and get what they want in life; while Beta-males are advertised as weak, unconfident, less attractive, kissing up kind of guys.  However, the trouble with this assumption is that 80% of Society’s conclusion is derived from a bias perception of the individuals’ physical appearance, rather than his overall character. Beta-males can appear to display the strength, good looks, and muscular physique of an Alpha-male, while enjoying the attention of the spotlight, but their character will soon show their incapabilities to lead, not because they don’t have the ability, but because they choose acceptance over confrontation.  

There are some Alpha-males that might appear weak, shy lookin, or even average, to the eyes of one who holds a bias perception of how an Alpha-male should resemble. But when their leadership characteristics are called for, they fearlessly rise to the occasion; silencing those who clearly underestimated their capacity to take charge and win, because Alpha-males choose winning over recognition and acceptance.

CHAPTER 2

ALPHA-MALES IN RELATIONSHIPS

Most women have an attraction to the concept of possessing an Alpha-male, due to his advertised reputation to win, protect, and fight for what belongs to him. These characteristics in a husband, gives the wife a sense of safety and security.  And although he is faithful in his drive to win, fight for, and protect his family, he is very weak at emotionally connecting to a relationship. Alpha-males love to win. And their determination to win, forces them to practice the art of emotional detachment from anyone who may try to block their chances of winning; even if the blocking is coming from family and friends. The Alpha-male’s constant practice of emotional detachment , impedes his ability to connect to his wife and kids the way they need him to.

Alpha-males also seem to be more dedicated to their job than to their family. And in the eyes of the Alpha-male, his job is an important necessity for protecting his family. It’s not that he loves his job more than his family, it’s that he’s emotionally connected to achieving goals.

The only way for Alpha-males to succeed in relationships, is for them to create challenging relationship goals that’s worthy of their undertaking. If they are willing to set high marriage goals and high family goals which connects with their high carrier goals, it’ll become a deserving challenge worth achieving.   

Wives who are married to Alpha-males, will find it challenging to generate emotional connections from their husbands. Such men avoid expressing their inner feelings and love for a woman, due to their habitual practice of detaching themselves from their personal feelings in order to win against their opponents. It takes a special kind of woman to handle a man like that; such a woman would have to convince him that she is loyal; that he can trust her; and that she is the best winning prize, in this category, that he will ever need. Such a man need a confident woman like that.

CHAPTER 3 

THE ALPHA-MALE’S PERSONALITY

Many books are being published on how to become the Alpha-male! Unfortunately, these books lead certain men to believe it will transform their life into a confident, stand up, ladies’ man. And if they become a ladies’ man (Alpha-male), what kind of woman would it take for that kind of man to settle down to just one? 

Alpha-males are praised for their confidence, fearless executions, and courageous drive to win. But long-term personal relationships are not their strong suit.  The reason why Alpha-males pursue particular women, is to enjoy a win over them; it is not to have a longterm relationship with them. Alpha-males enjoy going after the women that plays hard to get, giving them an opportunity to win something, not easy to obtain. But after the chase has been won, and the celebration has ended, these type of guys succumb to boredom, because the fun was in the chase, not the prize. The woman who has the wisdom to show her man, that the prize is more valuable than the chase, will have her husband for life. 

Remember, as long as the woman keeps her focus on winning for the team, she will keep the respect of her Alpha-male.

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